Christian, Single, & Barren

                                                                Even Jesus Said No...     If you looked up the word people pleaser in the dictionary or even did a Google search for this term, I am pretty sure that you would see my picture. As a Christian single woman saying no can be hard. I have felt like if I say no that I might miss out on the perfect God ordained opportunity. That I will be sinning or won't receive a blessing. Saying no feels like I am breaking one of The 10 Commandments.  I have often felt guilted into always saying yes. Recently a family member asked me to help them with a task once a week. I told the family member that I can help some weeks, but not every week due to other commitments. Of course, the family member got upset, but they have access to other family members and resources that can...

Introduction & Welcome  Honestly, I never thought that I would be almost 40 years old and still single. I started this channel Christian, Single, and Barren but many days this is how I feel both figuratively and literally. It is hard enough to be single but being Christian and single can be very challenging. I like many people have not gotten that Hallmark movie romance and picture-perfect ending. I have learned the importance of being intentional and to wait for God’s best in every area of my life. I have learned not to settle and what I really should be looking for in a possible boyfriend or spouse. Overall, I started this blog to share my journey as a Christian single woman, to share God’s provision, and lessons that I am learning along the way. I also want to let readers know that you should not be made to feel guilty for not being content in your season of singleness. You are not less of a Christian for having wants, longings, and desires. Please don't give into the lies t...