Christian, Single, & Barren

  Another Birthday Single.... “I will be your God throughout your lifetime -- until your hair is white with age. I made you, and I will care for you. I will carry you along and save you (Isaiah 46:4, New Living Translation)        Is it possible to look forward to and then not look forward to your birthday at the same time? I am thankful for the blessing of another birthday, but it is the getting older part that is hard. Growing up I never got those extravagant birthdays. Even though I am an only child my dad would often forget my birthday, which hurt so much year after year. Since my dad passed away a few years ago I no longer have to worry about him forgetting my birthday, but now I feel this sadness and mixed emotions that he is no longer here. Then there is the thought of facing another birthday single. As an introvert that struggles with friendships and being social overall there won’t be a special birthday dinner or surprise gifts. My job has published ...

                                                                                     Facing Setbacks So do not fear, for I am with you;      do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you;      I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. -Isaiah 41:10 (NIV)       In life sometimes we are faced with one setback after another setback. We may face setbacks regarding our finances or our health. Recently I decided to back to school. After taking a class for a certain major I realized that it was not a good fit and I made the decision to drop the class. Unfortunately, I missed the class drop deadline by 2 days. Long story short I am now responsible for the full cost of the co...

                                                                Even Jesus Said No...     If you looked up the word people pleaser in the dictionary or even did a Google search for this term, I am pretty sure that you would see my picture. As a Christian single woman saying no can be hard. I have felt like if I say no that I might miss out on the perfect God ordained opportunity. That I will be sinning or won't receive a blessing. Saying no feels like I am breaking one of The 10 Commandments.  I have often felt guilted into always saying yes. Recently a family member asked me to help them with a task once a week. I told the family member that I can help some weeks, but not every week due to other commitments. Of course, the family member got upset, but they have access to other family members and resources that can...

Introduction & Welcome  Honestly, I never thought that I would be almost 40 years old and still single. I started this channel Christian, Single, and Barren but many days this is how I feel both figuratively and literally. It is hard enough to be single but being Christian and single can be very challenging. I like many people have not gotten that Hallmark movie romance and picture-perfect ending. I have learned the importance of being intentional and to wait for God’s best in every area of my life. I have learned not to settle and what I really should be looking for in a possible boyfriend or spouse. Overall, I started this blog to share my journey as a Christian single woman, to share God’s provision, and lessons that I am learning along the way. I also want to let readers know that you should not be made to feel guilty for not being content in your season of singleness. You are not less of a Christian for having wants, longings, and desires. Please don't give into the lies t...